Who says that going on a date needs a plus-one? When you’re out on your own, with nothing but your curiosity and an open mind, you’re more likely to have life-altering encounters.
It’s not about avoiding other people; it’s about focusing on your own needs and your relationship with yourself. Getting out of the house, even for a short while, can feel incredibly freeing. With no one to impress or expectations to meet, you’re free to do exactly as you please. No matter your personality type, whether you’re a natural artist or a complete couch potato, there are plenty of ways to turn a solo date into a true indulgence.
Here are six ideas to turn a one-on-one date into an unforgettable experience. Imagine these solo dates as first dates with the most interesting person you’ll ever meet—yourself.
Wander a Local Market
It’s hard to resist being caught up in the energetic atmosphere of a local market. Relax, strike up conversations with the sellers, and go out and purchase something unexpected, like a colourful bouquet of flowers or an unusual antique necklace. If you’re looking for a low-key method to get to know your neighbourhood and its people, this is it.
Go on a Gallery Hop
Avoid being timid and go to the museum or gallery by yourself. The absence of outside stimuli lets you give your undivided attention to the artwork. Take all the time you need to study a painting, or just pass over the sections that fail to captivate you. Choose when and how you want it done.
Nature’s Therapy Session
The simple act of moving to a new place may sometimes do wonders. Pick a quiet spot in the park, sink into the moment, and just be. Watch the world go by, plug into a podcast, or lose yourself in a good book. Sometimes, doing nothing is exactly what your mind needs, and being present can shift everything.
DIY At-Home Spa Night
How about wrapping up your day with a small self-care ritual? Light a scented candle, play some soothing music, and unwind with a face mask or a lengthy bath. You deserve care and relaxation, and this is a subtle way to tell yourself that.
Cook Yourself a Three-course Meal
Raise your hand if there’s a dish you’ve been wanting to try for ages but keep putting off. Now’s the time; pick a recipe you’ve been meaning to make, set the table, and maybe even light a lamp or a scented candle. Cooking for yourself with the same care you’d show a guest sends a powerful message: you are worth the effort.
The Permission Slip Experience
Relax and do something really ridiculous or very self-indulgent, like go to watch a horror movie on a weekday, scream out some karaoke, or lounge in a high-end hotel lobby for no other reason than the chairs are beautiful. These little things may help you remember that being happy doesn’t need anyone else’s approval.
The real treat of going on a solo date isn’t always the activities but rather the realisation that you’re fun to be around. What makes you giggle when no one is looking, how to create pleasure on your own, and what energises you vs. what drains you are all things you’ll find out about.
So, what’s the hold-up? Your amazing solo date won’t plan itself. Go on, make it happen!
